trwnhnot that i'm aware of but to summarize: mastodon unlisted is still visible in your home timeline and on your profile, but youtube unlisted is not visible in your subscription feed or your channel videos
trwnhi think i proposed like 5 years ago or so for mastodon to use their existing `discoverable` property instead of the weird idiosyncratic to-vs-cc heuristic as a sort of "magic switch"
trwnhwell if it's your post then the immediate replies should be consistent because they would have been sent to you. it's really the replies under other people's posts that are inconsistent (if they are on a different server, because those replies might not reach you)
trwnhthis is getting a bit too close to #indieweb-dev territory but i am reminded of salmon and salmention as a way to propagate replies up the chain, which would at least allow you to check the "root post" on the origin server for a more complete picture. alternatively if there was a real conversation being maintained on a central hub server then you could check there (kind of like a mailing list)
trwnhthe real question is how to make progressive enhancements and upgrades in an ecosystem where most participants don't actually recognize differences in protocol or protocol versioning. everyone just kind of assumes that everyone else is doing the same thing, but they're totally not
[morganm]Mastodon somehow manages to tick all of the boxes in terms of technical features and focus I would want out of a social media platform, but my lived experience of trying it out was not super great and I removed my account in a sort of push to reduce my online time. I really liked how deleting my account felt like actually deleting something somehow, rather than like checking a row in a database "isDeleted" and effectively having left all your
[morganm]Im really happy with my current low-key and down-graded usage of internet and media. I still have a instagram but I use the web client only and its massively less overpowering