2021-03-24 UTC
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[tantek] aaronpk "i would just stop texting them or whatever" potentially falls into trap 2. people do all sorts of things to each other than are potentially harmful (e.g. ghosting), and there is a strong adversarial/individualistic western society default of both "everyone is responsible for their own whatever", and "burning bridges rather than repairing them", and "let's cancel people that upset us"