#Loqi[[tantek]] I'd like to get rid of "scratch your own itch" from the /principles page just as we got rid of selfdogfooding
#[fluffy]I think itch-scratching is a reasonable idiom
#[fluffy]But using more direct language is probably a good goal in general
#[KevinMarks]"put your own mask on first" is a related idiom that got more relevant
#[tantek]yes, itch-scratching is less offensive than selfdogfooding
#[tantek]KevinMarks, perhaps a combination even, put your own mask on first before you scratch your itches? as far as tending to safety before features
#[tantek]something we will need to do more of as webmention grows in popularity
#capjamesg[d]I liked your analogy combination there [tantek] of [KevinMarks]' suggestion.
#capjamesg[d]I do think "make what you need" would resonate with more people though.
#capjamesg[d]There's no reason why both can't be mentioned anyway?
#[tantek]capjamesg[d], yeah I used "scratch your own itch" in my talk at FSWS2010 as a call for that particular crowd to solve real problems they could relate to before trying to presume the knowledge of "what everyone wants solved"
#[tantek]I like "make what you need" because it's more broadly literally applicable
#capjamesg[d]I don't interpret it as "I can bake a cookie or a pie or an apple crumble" but I don't see the need / benefit of the word "cook".
#capjamesg[d]I know cook = make / build but will other people?
#[tantek]I think most people either do cook or want to think they can cook, hence the appeal
#[tantek]also cooking is an act of creation and transformation
#[tantek]in contrast to scratching is not really "making" anything
#[tantek]also cooking is something which you can "easily" scale-up a bit so that you make more than just for yourself, to share, which is aligned with our community values
#capjamesg[d]Conceptually, I think the word "cook" is a bit far from what I would expect from a page about making what I need.
#capjamesg[d]make what you need > scratch your own itch > cook what you want
#[tantek]would "grind the coffee beans you want to brew" be better? 😉
#capjamesg[d]I feel that is important to state in this discussion.
#[tantek]technically brewing coffee is a form of cooking 🙂
#capjamesg[d]All three variants, to me, imply ownership, which I think is a key concept. I feel like this discussion is more about the semantics of what would resonate more with people.
#capjamesg[d]I think make what you need is the most direct variant we have right now. There's not much thinking that is needed to understand the concept.
#capjamesg[d]With that said, that's my opinion; what works for the most people / what resonates most is the variant we should promote 🙂
#[tantek]got it. sounds like folks are pretty agreed on "make what you need" as preferred for the principles, and there's a mix of opinions on "scratch your own itch", "cook what you want/need", or other possibilities "put your own mask on first", "fill your own cup first" etc.
#GWGI'm agood cook, horrible baker, and I don't drink coffee. So, I don't know how I relate to this analogy.
#[chrisaldrich]We might also keep in mind the variety of translations these phrases might have (and the unintended poor idiom choices/biases those languages may have) in those other languages. Make what you need is reasonably straightforward versus scratch your own itch which as a metaphor may have a much wider choice of translations.
#[chrisaldrich]I'll note that most parents will tell their children not to scratch those bug bites for fear of increasing damage or scarring.
#[chrisaldrich]As an example/exercise, Tantek, have you looked at how other languages translate the English-based war/fighting phrases and colloquialisms you've been collecting? Those might provide other more interesting/useful replacements that aren't as belligerent as our learned framings.
#[tantek]ooof that whole war/violence metaphor thing is another can of worms (to mix metaphors 😉 )
#[tantek]that's a good point about kids being told to NOT scratch their itches. good criticism of that phrase
#gRegor"put your own mask on first" makes me think of emergencies, which I don't love
#[tantek]i.e. if we don't suggest alternative metaphors, the existing metaphor "scratch your own itch" will stick around and continue to get propagated
#capjamesg[d]To what extent will we advertise alternative metaphors vs. our main one, whatever we choose.
#Loqieat what you cook is a metaphor for the IndieWeb principle “use what you make”, encouraging creators to use what they create, in particular on their personal website https://indieweb.org/use_what_you_make
#[tantek](a page I probably should move and rewrite to be focused on the literal "use what you make" principle, and then "eat what you cook" as "just" a metaphor for that)
#[tantek]this is a good discussion, because there's also multiple metaphors on that page already
#@explodingblood↩️ there were a bunch of cool tools being built to enable the big social media features on self hosted websites as part of the indieweb project but i don’t think it really went anywhere substantial in the long term unfortunately (twitter.com/_/status/1450589966413746178)