ben_thatmustbemeand if things are in there too long, i hit a point of "well, i guess i've seen this 200 times or so and still not done it... i'm just going to say i'm never going to"
ben_thatmustbemeyou clearly get far more emails than i do. well, i don't know how many i actually get, but tons of them are automated stuff that i have filter rules to automatically get to other folders