2018-02-28 UTC
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melody the sex/gender distinction is one which is....debatable, one of the areas of social flux....but OKCupid is still just asking for gender -- the reason for the "group me with" options is so that if somebody adds a nonbinary gender but also considers themselves to be a man/woman, they can ensure that they show up in results for people looking for men/women and not just specifically "genderfluid" or "bigender" or "nonbinary", as a for-instance, and for