#tanteksebsel, it's important to help encourage people to define themselves by what they are, instead of by what they are not (or implying, missing)
#tantekI have found this especially challenging in tech contexts, as even gen2+ folks themselves often have a default self-framing as a "non-developer".
#tantekSo both gen1 folks need to explicitly use positive framing (instead of "non-x" wording), but gen1 folks also need to encourage gen2+ folks to explicitly use positive self-framing, and perhaps even explicitly discourage "non-x" self-framing.
#gRegorLoveI thought it was a good conversation, might be worth capturing
#sebselyeah, it's a good thing to capture I think.
#tantekok cool. because I think this subject is particularly challenging to convey (and adopt!) I'm going to ask that one of you two try documenting it by what you understood from above. and we can iterate from there
#tantek(just to see if I made any actual sense, or if it was too abstract to be useful)
#Loqi[tantek] I have found this especially challenging in tech contexts, as even gen2+ folks themselves often have a default self-framing as a "non-developer".
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#tantekZegnat, want to try your hand at documenting?
#ZegnatI would be happy to brainstorm some of my thoughts there, yes. After D&D night.
#tantekself framing is part of the overall need for more positive framing, and use of explicit positive (re)framing to counteract default negative framing
#tanteklol: / Portland’s whole “If I RSVP, it means I’m interested, not that I’m actually going to show up” culture. /
#tantekUh, I think SXSW had that many many years ago
#aaronpkyeah i don't think that's unique to portland
#tantekat SXSW it was accepted - since so many "free / optional / but RSVP required" things overlapped, the natural solution was RSVP to all the things, decide last minute depending on what you feel like / what the people you're with at that moment feel like
#Loqi[@GeekAndDad] @matto One problem I have with many pdx events is that there's no "maybe" option to indicate interest but not sure about logistics/timing yet.
#tanteksame problem at SXSW. Eventbrite etc. other ticketing systems are all YES or NO
#tantekalso the "flake on events" feeds on itself. as people get the perception that other RSVPs are also weak maybes, then there is less confidence to bother with even taking the time to show up, if you're motivated by seeing other people at events (which tends to be a pretty big motivation in general to go to something in person)
#tantekalso I'm rarely going to bother with clicking on a "see more" to see who else is going/interested - I think FB's design on events here is a mistake
#tantekaaronpk, curious, did you explicitly invite @matto to IWS this year? He's clearly UX focused, and has a company with its own domain
#aaronpki found that thread through rick's article about it
#tantekthere's another phenomenon that happened in SF that may be happening in Portland too - most people that go to these kinds of meetups tend to be independents who appreciate informal meetup opportunities with similar colleagues
#aaronpkhonestly i think another big factor is the economy is doing very well right now so there's not nearly as many people between jobs as there was in 2008, so there's a lot fewer meetups happening now because everyone's tired from work by the end of the day. in 2008 when there were way more unemployed people there were a lot more informal meetups happening and a lot more people attending them.
#tantekover time, many (most?) of them got hired by various BigCos or FundedStartUps who both worked them so many hours (preoccupied their time), and squished them in with default colleagues (fullfilled some/most/all of their colleague in-person time desires) that they stopped going to such meetups
#tantekyet that's the opposite from what I just said. in that in a good economy, more independents tend to stay independent (because they can find work more easily)
#tantekwhereas as an economy worsens, independents tend to on the whole tire of meta-work (work to find work) and decide to go fulltime salary somewhere
#tantek(some degree of musical chairs before the music stops perhaps too - you don't want to be the last independent looking for a full time gig)
#aaronpki think that might be a difference between SF and PDX. on a downturn, there are still jobs in SF, but there just aren't in PDX
#Loqi[@matto] But after coming up on 5 years of doing this, we don't seem to have figured out how to grow sustained interest in what we're doing.
#tantek"sustained interest" is key - and frankly I've found no way around "make sure self-interest is front & center" - hence HWC / IWC about helping *you* with *your* presence on the web, which any professional should care about
#tantekalso scratch your own itch, selfdogfooding etc.
#Loqi[@matto] 63% of our speakers have been women, if you're into numbers.
#tantekbut that's A LOT of work as any conference organizer will tell you from personal experience. no matter how many lists of lists of speakers to get to speak people keep linking to. yes you invite lots of people, and the response rate is lower or cancellation is higher etc. etc. plenty of anecdotes here
#tantekat WordCamp Ottawa "I’d spent the morning watching speakers (all women, by the way) being constantly interrupted by audience members – most not even asking questions, but commenting on some aspect of the talk."
#tantekGood advice there at the end of the article, but I think that's insufficient. It shouldn't be completely the speaker's burden to bear.
#tantekI think organizers have a responsbility to moderate a room to curtail such interruptive behavior, especially for lightning talks
#aaronpkapparently $5 just isn't enough of a commitment
#tantek$10 seems like a good # to keep it accessible, and yet, if we're comitting to two days of providing food, I think going as high as $20 is reasonable
#tantek(breakfast + lunch for two days for $20 is quite a good deal)
#tantekeven if all you do is show up, eat, and listen
#aaronpkyeah i think keeping it meal-priced is totally reasonable
#tantekwell we're pretty far off from that (based on sponsorship $ needed to provide the catering) but I do think we can ask more in the future if we want to offset or help motivate a "more bought in" attitude
#aaronpkthe big challenge for me is estimating the number of attendees for placing the food orders!
#aaronpknot knowing the dropout rate, you kind of have to plan for an optimistic turnout
#tantekthat's additional motivation then! if increasing the $/person increases the reliability of estimate
#Loqi[@anomalily] @siliconflorist @matto I organized a big scavenger hunt on 7/8 and managed to get 98% show up rate by assigning teams, sending people their teams ahead of time.
#tantekputting people in teams provides a stronger social sense of responsibility to either show up or give advance notice of not being able to
#tantekespecially for friends who you seem to interact with a lot more on FB
#tantekit doesn't prompt you for everyone. it shows you only for folks it thinks you really "care" about, and it is darn creepy how good it is at inferring that
#tantek(at least in my experience, and I don't even read FB news feed!)
#aaronpkreally? it's doing a pretty bad job of that for me
#tantekthough I do use FB messenger a bunch so I'm guessing it's inferring a lot from that
#aaronpkit's showing me people with birthdays tomorrow, the 27th and 30th. appears to be just sorted by date
#tantekand prompting you to create events for all of them?!?
#tantekthey used to "Discussion" and "Description" as two distinct tabbed views on event permalinks
#tantekthat's gone now, and it shows the full description, then the /create UI for the context of the event, then "Recent Activity" - other posts, likely ordered by most recently commented on or posted
#tantekthis actually looks like an earlier version of their web UI for event permalinks
#tantek*before* they switched to the weird "Discussion" and "Description" as two distinct tabbed views on event permalinks